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Subject: Gang fight at Askew Park tonight! May 15th!
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TakingabreakUser is Offline

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05/19/2008 10:27 AM Alert 
Posted By Smokin Ace on 05/19/2008 7:51 AM

. Sad that society has also gotten to the point where Children run the show. When did adults stop being Adults and turn things over to the kids? 

 

 


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05/19/2008 4:16 PM Alert 
I will tell you WHEN it happened/happens...when parents PARENT BY GUILT. They feel guilty cus they have to work, guilty cus they are divorced, guilty cus they dont make enough money to keep up with the Jones's. I have been guilty of it myself a time or two...but when it becomes the norm is when you have problems....

There is my .02
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05/19/2008 6:36 PM Alert 

It happens when parents have kids and don't take care of them. 

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05/19/2008 9:21 PM Alert 
Hey MODERATOR how about deleting these topics that have already been disproven. It's not all a conspiracy.....
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05/20/2008 8:55 AM Alert 
EVERY time I go to Jane Askew park (several times a week) there are many kids that go down in that area near the golf course, behind the playground equipment. Usually it's just 12-15 yr. old punks who wear hooded jackets in 90 degree heat and go back there to smoke. Several times the MPD has shown up to patrol the area and made the kids leave. I always want to go down there and tell them to get lost but I have 2 little kids and don't want any trouble from those freak shows.

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05/20/2008 12:20 PM Alert 

Posted By missPolitick on 05/20/2008 8:55 AM
EVERY time I go to Jane Askew park (several times a week) there are many kids that go down in that area near the golf course, behind the playground equipment. Usually it's just 12-15 yr. old punks who wear hooded jackets in 90 degree heat and go back there to smoke. Several times the MPD has shown up to patrol the area and made the kids leave. I always want to go down there and tell them to get lost but I have 2 little kids and don't want any trouble from those freak shows.

 

 

 

What kind of POS parent lets there kids smoke?  And don't tell me they don't know.  You can't even walk by a cigarette wthout stinking like one.

 

 

Smokin AceUser is Offline

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05/20/2008 3:52 PM Alert 
Because they probably picked up the habit from their parents. So they steal the parents smokes and go to the park. The parents can't sell it since they smell like smoke all the time. Sad isn't it...

Power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely. ~Lord Acton
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05/20/2008 6:43 PM Alert 
Is this STILL being discussed?

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05/22/2008 7:12 PM Alert 

I do have 3 high school boys and one middle school boy and let me tell you the stuff they come home and tell me happens not only in the parks but in the class rooms. Most of the teachers are good but tired, they send them to the office and not much happens. And the middle shool is worse than the high school.

I know we cannot blame the teachers but I do blame most of us parents.  It is easy to point fingers. What happend to the days were the kids have to check in and be home at a certain time. I always have a house full of their friends. I would rather have a noisey house of kids while I am home and know who their friends are and what they are doing than not knowing wehre my kids are..

Example I cam home early from work and caught my 12 year old skating home from school with a group of his friends. No he was doing nothing wrong except he knows he is not permitted to skate or walk home ever. So he was grounded for 1 week in the house no friends, phone etc. I bet he wont do that again. I do not believe in hitting but I do believe that if you take away someones favorit things they will listen the next time.

Lets all try to be more of parents and less of just about us.

 

 

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05/22/2008 8:53 PM Alert 

In 30 years of teaching in a high school (I retired 2 yrs ago), I noticed a marked deterioration in the willingness of both students and their parents to take responsibility for their actions. Many students refuse to accept any restrictions on their behavior or responsibility for their actions. Many times at parent conferences parents have said that they have to deal with the kid at home and it was our job to deal with him at school. More often than not, if the administration tried to deal firmly with the child, the parents would say that we were picking on their angelic darling because he was black, white, Hispanic, Asian, or any other group you can think of. Their next comment was usually that they were going to sue us all.

Much of the problem was the result of spineless school boards that refused to institute and enforce strict rules of behavior that had firm repercussions for violations. At the first threat of a lawsuit the board would fold like a lawn chair and settle on a compromise that would amount to a slap on the wrist. Over time this destroyed the authority of teachers and administrators. This will not change until school boards get backbones and until we get a judicial system that will support school administrators and teachers. Don't hold your breath.

Kudos to you parents who are doing a good job. I just wish that there were more of you.

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05/23/2008 4:04 PM Alert 
I couldn't agree more with you. But as you said they will never get a backbone. I heard a parent refer to school as the babysitter the other day. That makes my blood boil a bit. They are there to get a education not so mom and dad can get rid of them for 8 hrs. Parents seem to be forgetting what school is really for. I can't image what the leaders of tomorrow will be like.

Power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely. ~Lord Acton
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