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EanizerUser is Offline

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04/07/2008 5:29 PM Alert 

It's been a crazy couple of days, I won't go into the full blown story. But here is the update. Reiley has been in terrible pain at her g-tube site for some time. She saw the surgeon at PCH today and she spoke with Reiley's GI at PCH and Reiley will be having another scope done Thursday at PCH. We have to be there at 530am. She will be really looked at throughly, checking were the ulcer was, pulling the g-tube button out to check the tract and having another different kind of button put in. She just had a new kind put in on 3.24.08. They will also cauterize the bloody granulation tissue that is growing.

She had to go in today also for a x-ray of her tummy and if they see anything from that, they will call me. Otherwise, we will just be waiting for the scope procedure on Thursday.

They also changed a lot of her meds hoping to reduce the pain and acid reflux she seems to be having as well as the constipation problem that just got worse not better....

Anyway, just wanted to update.

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04/07/2008 6:32 PM Alert 

I'm sorry that your child is going through all this and the burden that must be borne by you and your family coping with it.

I wish it were not so for you all.

However, you now have started 4 topics on the front page of this forum, and several on another one, concerning her.

I'm starting to get "Reiley overload" and frankly, her medical condition and information concerning her are no-one else's business, and I'm surprised you continue to lay it all bare for the world to see.

Some of us don't have children, and don't actually care about the health of some child we don't know, will never know and don't want to know. But we can still help if we want to, without being given "guilt-trips" everytime we look at the local news forum.

I know that sounds cruel and cold-hearted; well some of us are like that and have no interest in anyone's offspring. The world isn't perfect and no-one is altruistic.

Oh, and by the way, before you slam me, bear in mind that I am a contributor to the charity account of "Casey's Children"


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04/07/2008 8:26 PM Alert 
Just a simple suggestion Catch-22... don’t click on the thread! That’s the beauty of this forum...I might not care who cut who off on the 347 or what store is or is not coming on any given day (or even what kind of kitten someone wants to get, ehhm), so I have the choice to pick which thread I open and which ones I ignore. 67 people viewed the post already, so excluding you, if the 66 remaining people are curious enough to see what she writes then I think she can start as many threads as she wants. What makes your post any more important than hers? And if just 1 person who does read her thread has some insight as to how to help that family, then annoying you for the 5 seconds it took for you to read the thread was worth it. What drives you to contribute to Casey's Children? Most people don't donate out of obligation or "guilt-trip." They donate because they found a cause they feel passionate about. Why don't you let everyone choose for themselves how they want to react to "Reiley posts?" The choice is as simple as one click either away!
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04/07/2008 8:52 PM Alert 
Posted By Catch-22 on 04/07/2008 6:32 PM

I'm sorry that your child is going through all this and the burden that must be borne by you and your family coping with it.

I wish it were not so for you all.

However, you now have started 4 topics on the front page of this forum, and several on another one, concerning her.

I'm starting to get "Reiley overload" and frankly, her medical condition and information concerning her are no-one else's business, and I'm surprised you continue to lay it all bare for the world to see.

Some of us don't have children, and don't actually care about the health of some child we don't know, will never know and don't want to know. But we can still help if we want to, without being given "guilt-trips" everytime we look at the local news forum.

I know that sounds cruel and cold-hearted; well some of us are like that and have no interest in anyone's offspring. The world isn't perfect and no-one is altruistic.

Oh, and by the way, before you slam me, bear in mind that I am a contributor to the charity account of "Casey's Children"

I'm confused to say the least. First my confusion is this, when I read the post originally you wrote - Oh, and by the way, before you slam me, bear in mind that I am contributor to the charity account in Reiley's name at Wells Fargo. But now your post reads Casey's Children.???

Next, I thought these forums where open for anyone to post about anything. This is my life, this is my daughter, this is what I post about along with other things if you do belong to other forums, you know this. I try and post about other things, but yes, unfortunately with all that is going on, it is mostly about my daughter.

And I wouldn't and am not going to bash you for your opinion, it's your opinion, but here is mine -  thank you to the person who posted after you. As they said, you don't have to read what I post. You can simply choose to ignore it. You have the right, just as I have the right to post, correct? 

I don't read all the posts on the forums, I read what I want, reply to what I want and ignore what I want. If my posts about my daughter are distressing you that much, I apologize, and ask you not to read them as I wouldn't want to cause you anymore stress or guilt in your life.

If you did donate to Casey's then you will get a nice tax credit for your kind donation and my family thanks you for your kindness!!

 

 

 

 

 

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04/07/2008 9:55 PM Alert 

Simply stated...catch22 or anyone else that might feel the same..

Reiley's Mom is on a mission to help her daughter get well...any loving Mom in her position would and should take advantage of any means possible....I have never met her but I can tell she is determined to see her child well...would anyone want less for their child or someone they loved...?

Shame on anyone that has the gall to challenge her efforts....if they disturb you so much...duh...simply ignore the threads....

 

 


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04/07/2008 11:30 PM Alert 
Catch22 - I'm so sorry for all that you've had to go through having to read these posts and I, too, wish that it wasn't so for you. How absolutely horrifying for you to be forced to click on the posts with Reiley's name on them and then, horror of horrors, actually have to READ them. Terrible, just terrible. If you started a fund today to collect compensation for your suffering, I would gladly donate. We could call it the Dipsh-- fund. Good luck.


I, on the other hand, could read about Reiley all day, Susan. I voted for her every time I got on the computer today and I appreciate your willingness to keep me and everyone else posted on her progress.

I loathe people who keep dogs. They are cowards who haven’t got the guts to bite people themselves. ~Sir Geoffrey Streatfield
EanizerUser is Offline

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04/08/2008 7:40 AM Alert 

Thank you for those of you who are not bashing me for posting about my daughter. Life is hard enough without being attacked by others just for posting about their child. I know there are people in Maricopa who do want updates, since we are asking our community for help in getting her the medical treatment she needs. I feel it's my obligation, my responsibility to keep everyone informed about what is going on with her.

I think any person trying to help a friend, a child, a family member, a SO, or a  ball and chain, would do the same. Reach out, tell their story, try and find help.

I am truly a mother on a mission to get a diagnosis for my daughter and help her not be in so much pain, learn, grow and to be happy. I'm sure a lot of that is what most people want for other people.

Susan

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04/08/2008 9:58 AM Alert 

If I were you I would put my story out there in as many places as I could too. There has to be a specialist out there somewhere who could look at her and say "I know exactly what's wrong", you just have to find him/her and it may be completely by chance. Put a video on youtube, see if someone at the Republic will be willing to do a story on her, isn't there a doctor that does a radio show on talk radio? Call in and see if he can give you a new idea or maybe just the right person will hear it.  Be agressive and don't stop regardless of what people like catch-22 say. 

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04/08/2008 12:32 PM Alert 

So not to cause another thread, (just for you catch 22)  I'm just posting additional updates on this thread.

First update, I got a call from Marsha Dunn Klein, she runs mealtime notions in Tucson, she is a very renowned OT (in her field) who specializes in feeding. She got a hold of Reiley's GI and the GI is going to look at EVERYTHING Marsha suggested on her report about Reiley. So they will be doing a lot more than I had anticpated on Thursdays scope. Thank you Marsha!

Next update is sad news for me.

I got the call today I've been waiting for from the genetics counselor... was there muscle left from the bx Reiley had when she was 13 months old with the two different clinics that had Reiley's muscle that they could use to do the testing they never did...

The answer is no. Mayo in MN had no muscle and the clinic in Phoenix and frozen muscle on a block. They can't use it, it's not usable for the testing they should've done when the first suggestion of mito or metabolic came up.

I'm so sad. I'm so frustrated. So a muscle bx now totally confirmed to have been in vain and
left Reiley with an almost 2" scar on her leg.

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04/08/2008 1:03 PM Alert 

My wife and I are fortunate enough to have six children who never required a day in the hospital. I can't imagine having to deal with a chronic illness for a child. It must be frustrating, heartbreaking, and exhausting. I can imagine that using the forum is theraputic in a way, and if that's the case, then it's serving a great purpose.

For those who have to endure the inconcenience of skipping over a couple of threads on their way to their favorite discussion of weeds, builder signs, HOA woes, or the latest excitement from the double-wides, imagine how inconvient it would be to have to be at the hospital at 5:30 AM (and most likely spend the day there).

Good luck to Reiley and family. I hope that some day you're able to look back on this as a challenge in life that you were able to overcome.


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04/08/2008 6:46 PM Alert 

DD:  I hope this is a real deal considering PCH is geared off of ACCHS and insurance funding.  Everyone is jumping on Catch-22 but it does appear orchestrated for money.  Sorry but life is life, and maybe Rick and Amy should contribute 50.00 instead of the wantabe councilman fund.  OKOK

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04/08/2008 8:13 PM Alert 

Hi there. I don't know who Rick or Amy are. And yes PCH does accept her AZ long term care insurance. If you are curious about what is being orchestrated for our daughter, then you could read the archive story on 85239.com in the community section, or the Maricopa Monitor that came out last Friday.  Thanks.

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04/08/2008 8:35 PM Alert 
<--not that Amy
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04/08/2008 8:41 PM Alert 

I knew it wasn't you Amy " )

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04/08/2008 8:47 PM Alert 
:-) Susan, please continue updating us, through her good days and bad days, and with all the prayers we can only hope more good days are on the way!
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04/08/2008 8:55 PM Alert 
Susan Our thoughts are with you and your family. I am so sorry you all have to go through all this but be strong!
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04/08/2008 9:59 PM Alert 

No Garden Glow....shame on you for buying into anything that you read. I applaud Reiley's Mom for doing whatever she has to for her child. But you can't blame Catch 22's skeptisim. We live in a world where people take advantage of caring, compassionate people all the time. I read the story, and all the posts. This is not the direction I would take, but who am I pass judgement?  I'm a Dad, so I wish good luck to Reiley's mom, and I hope for the  the best for your daughter.

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04/08/2008 10:34 PM Alert 
Susan~ Keep posting. Many are blessed with children who will never have health issues and thank goodness.....but for those who aren't, it is nice to have an outlet and to feel that extra support even from total strangers.

The last time we were at PCH the oncology floor was closed for construction and so my son met up with a boy his age in the school room. They had a great time together for the few days mine was there. Hayden is diabetic and his new friend had cancer, we obviously have the easier of the 2 diseases, but for a few days it was just 2 boys that were friends because they related to being different from the "norm". There is nothing wrong with sharing of yourself when others need a friend.

It is great to find support amongst others. I may not be able to relate to the fear of the unknown that you have but I have a sincere belief that pain knows pain, and there is no greater pain than a parents anguish for their children. Post away if it helps you even the slightest bit get through this!

Susan, who is your surgeon at PCH. I had 2 boys have surgery there. Hayden was 11 and Nathan was only 6 weeks old for his and both times we got Dr. Leigh McGill....he is awesome. Great bed side manner and a great surgeon. He actually waived my $100 ($50 per kid)copay when I had to take both of my boys in for a check up on the same day. Dr. McGill had just gotten back from Hawaii and was convinced I had single handedly provided for that trip :o) He might be right :o) I love PCH....we are there often enough!

Good luck....hope that golf tourney is going well for you!

Changing lives one diaper at a time since 1993.
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04/08/2008 11:41 PM Alert 
I tried to stay out of this one….

My issue with catch-22 is that the post was not really questioning the validity of the situation, it was telling Susan to quit posting. (I know it was aimed at me too)
I have no issue with questioning if this is legitimate or not. That makes sense to me. A fool and his money are soon parted.

The fact is that it is legitimate and there is a lot of evidence and researched publicity to back it up. 85239’s RuthAnn has a good track record here, at least with me, of looking into a story beyond what is presented, such as the auto repair place that wants to come to Maricopa. No bells or whistles went off when 85239 did their last story on this cause.

I met the Lakes only recently and did sit in with the interview the Monitor. I met Reiley on a day when the Firefighters came by to drop off some checks that had been collected, made out to the very well documented medical fund. Reiley was still connected to her feeding tube at the time.

One of the things that impressed me was that the Lakes are not looking for a handout, although donations are very welcome. What they are doing is trying to get an event together where the donations can be accompanied by something fun for the donors. The sponsors can get publicity for their businesses. To me this sounds like a winning combination.

Part of the reasons that posts are made is for therapy to define what is going on in one’s life. It allows a very open forum for feedback and for an exchange of ideas. Sometimes someone will say something and the poster says, “Wow, I never thought of that!” Sometimes the poster is set back a notch and says, “Hmmm maybe I am going in the wrong direction.”

On a very personal note, they are holding up a lot better than my family would be given 1/10 of their situation. Heck, my son sneezes and my wife is beside herself. 

Weather you can help or not, please respect the seriousness of the situation.



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04/09/2008 8:17 AM Alert 
Thank you Mallardisme, Catch 22 was not questioning, he even said he donated, he wanted me to stop posting about my daughter. He was tired of seeing all the threads. I posted back that just as he, I have the right to post. He has a right to his opinion and therefore I would not and still have not bashed him. I just asked him not to read the posts. I think that is what most people who responded said to Catch, just don't read them. Did it hurt me, yes, it did. I asked a moderator of another forum to take down my posts of her because I believe by his comment that he is also part of that board and didn't want to upset anyone.

Again, my purpose for posting on these boards about my daughter, is one, there are people who do want the updates. And two we are trying to hold a benefit golf tournament to raise funds for her to go to two different states to see two different specialist. Her insurance is not accepted at one of them, we already know that. Plus it costs money for room and board, transportation, food, we are on state aid, my state aid will not help me in other states. I had a GREAT job before my daughter got to where she is last May. I'm unable to work. If you saw my calander book of appointments, therapies, doctors, her feeding schedule you would understand why I can't work. My dearest sweetest husband is both a Real Estate Agent and an Insurance Agent, busting his butt, trying to provide for the 6 of us. And it's that much harder to support a special needs child.

Yesterday she got her DAFO's - dynamic ankle foot orthesis.... her shoes do not fit over these braces. I bought a pair of special shoes that Hanger (the place who made her braces) had designed to fit over the braces. The shoes were two sizes bigger than her normal shoes and cost $35.00 the socks were $24.00 for one pair. Then I went to Mervyns and put on my charge account because the shoes and socks left me with $130.00 in my bank account to buy her sandals that are 3 times the size she would normally wear so she now has 3 pair of shoes and one pair of socks. Not everything folks is covered by insurance and the SSI she receives helps pay our rent.

This is not a poor whoas me story. These posts are to update people, people who do care to know what is going on. What they are helping with. To also inform people about the golf tourney where if you play golf, the course is offering it at $80.00 cheaper than normal, you will have a fun time, lunch is included, prizes are being given away, and it's to help our daughter get the medical treatment she needs. I have repeatedly stated, that any monies that are left after her care are being redonated back to Casey's Children by us, which is a non profit organization that is collecting the donations and proceeds. We are hoping to make this golf tourney a HUGE event so that we can turn around and help countless others that are out here in similar situations like ourselfs who have special needs children with financial difficulites to no fault of their own. You can email Eileen McGrath with Casey's if you are in doubt as to where the donations and proceeds are going. You can ask her, have the Lake's said they are going to donate any monies left back to Casey's.

And lastly, I post on LOTS of forums, Yahoo I'm on several boards, locally on two boards, on another board with moms all across the United States... and another board called SWAN (syndromes without a name) I'm hoping that someday I may run across that family that says... OMG Susan, our kids have the exact same thing and we did this, this and this and got a diagnosis. People do not understand what it is like to have a child who looks perfectly healthy on the outside, except being half the size she is supposed to be, and being a complete train wreck on the inside.

How would you feel if your child or your friend, spouse, pet for that matter was completely fine until one day they just stopped eating and drinking. They never had the skills to walk, talk and lost skills they had and later regained them. How would you feel knowing the ONLY thing keeping your friend, spouse, child, pet alive was a tube in their belly taking in only a small amount of food to be able to sustain life... and the doctors are totally baffled as to why one, does this person or pet have brain disease, why does this person or pet of global developmental delays, why does this person or pet who once ate and drank completely stopped. Why does this person or pet can not be able to tolerate so much, like increase in volume, calories, foods they once ate and now have a violent reaction to and allergy testing has been done repeatedly with normal results. Why does this person or pet have so much pain will inserting their feeding line and screams in the middle of the night. Why does this pet or person have a syndrome but they can't figure out what it is. Why can doctors not figure out what is wrong with this person or pet and so you live in the unknown day in and day out searching for answers yourself.

We are not looking for handouts, we are looking to get our daughter to these two specialist who may be able to find Reiley answers to a vast amount of unknowns, along with the specialist she sees here in AZ.

Sorry so long. Thank you.
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